Hi everyone.
Just so you know, I was DotToDot on TDO. Actual hacking is no where near as common as people think. There are three main types of hackers: 1- those who want to gain something; money, information or status among other hackers, 2- those poking around just to see what they can break into, and 3- government agencies with court orders (extremely rare) or those willing to break the law (I hope even more rare). Homeland Security can probably get in but they are too busy to care about a little forum like ours to even save the data.
Hacking the TDO site is possible but unlikely, I really think the problems everyone had there were due to poor programming and site maintenance. Coding errors might pop up here too but a disappearing post is nothing sinister, just a glitch. Completely closing the site to non members might actually attract a really nosy hacker if they happened on the site but you have to know this address to find it and the odds are minuscule that someone with that level of expertise would bother to break in just to read posts about Cheryl.
Theoretically they could hack the forumotion.com site and get access to everyone's info from all of their forums but the software they use has a reputation for being well designed. And again, it would be a lot of work for limited benefit because the vast majority of people posting on forums make up their info.
As for someone getting into your personal machine there are much easier ways to get in than by hacking a forum. You are in more danger from opening a junk email than you are from logging into a forum.